I’m pretty new to being vocally sex positive. I’ve been polyamorous all my life, so in my personal circle, I’ve been critical of dominant relationship paradigms — for me. I’ve been bisexual all my life, so when someone has asked, I’ve said yes, I’m bisexual. And I’ve been submissive most of my adult life. That actually doesn’t come up in conversation much with my friends, so while I don’t hide it, I also don’t make a big deal out of it.
But through my volunteer work with the Center for Sex Positive Culture in Seattle, and with this blog, I have become much more vocal about what I’d like to see happen beyond the personal level: transgender people should be able to use whatever bathroom they feel is appropriate; no one should be discriminated against in employment or housing, regardless of sexual preference or gender identity (or race, age, etc.). And this: I believe sex work should be legal.
Because I’d like to see sex workers empowered with protections and rights. I’d like to see the highly professional people I know who do sex work get some recognition as the hard workers they are. I’d like the profession to be better regulated, for sex workers to be seen as separate from the current international story that human trafficking and preying on the week is what drives sex work. I’d like the profession to be regulated, too, because that would make illegal activity around sex work more visible. And I’d like the people who patronize sex workers to be free to do so.
I also think it’s an important human rights issue. Currently sex workers are arrested and jailed for their motive for having sex and for whom they have sex with. Just like at one point, gay men could be jailed, beaten, and worse for their idea of whom they found sexy. And there is also this, from the Huffington Post:
In terms of ideology, the two movements are not so far apart. The heart of the demand for LGBT rights is the idea that all people should be granted autonomy over their lives and bodies, that anyone should be allowed to sleep with who they choose and that it only concerns the people in the relationship and not the government or bigots. The very same idea is at the core of the fight for sex workers. Why should they not be granted the same freedom? Why should they not be allowed to have sex with who they choose? — Stephanie Farnsworth
If anyone wants to be truly free on this planet, we must fight for the rights of all our people to be free.